6. Voice of Authority: Speaking Confidently as a Leader
Ever caught yourself thinking, “Damn, how does she command a room like that?” That’s what this episode is about: how to speak confidently and unlock your vocal power no matter which room you find yourself in.
In this Side Note episode, host Samantha Fackler spills the tea on how to transform the way you speak in situations across life and business. The hot date you’re nervous about? The TEDx stage you (one day) will land on? There’s always a room where we may feel a bit nervous. In this episode, Sam shares tips to speak with authority and presence–like mastering breath control, body language, playing with your tone, and how the magic of a well-timed pause can completely change how you're heard.
5 simple but significant tips to speak with authority and presence (hello, throat chakra energy)
The lowdown on how body language can make or break your message
The PREP framework: your secret weapon for mastering any conversation or pitch
How to channel your inner Princess Di and connect with literally anyone
Breathing for Confidence and Control
Feeling like your voice disappears when the room gets loud? You’re not alone. Samantha Fackler reveals how your throat chakra could be the key to unlocking your true voice. From learning to breathe deeply using your diaphragm to calming your nervous system, these techniques can help you regain confidence in your speech. She explains how breathing “low and slow” can shift your energy, open your throat, and bring out that deep, resonant voice that commands attention. Ready to speak with authority? It starts with mastering your breath and connecting to the power within.
Pause, Breathe, Speak: The Key to Powerful Communication
The power of the pause is your secret weapon in communication. Samantha breaks down why pausing not only keeps you grounded but also makes your words more intentional and impactful. It's in those moments of stillness that we reconnect with our breath and find clarity. She shares how public speakers throughout history, like Teddy Roosevelt, mastered the art of saying more with fewer words. His simple yet powerful quote about the Grand Canyon is a prime example of how choosing your words carefully can leave a lasting impression.
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Key Takeaways
️ Introduction to Confident Speaking (00:01 - 09:41)
Episode focus: How to speak confidently
Importance of words and communication in leadership
Samantha’s personal journey with social anxiety and finding her voice
Practice is key to becoming a confident speaker
Expression of energy while speaking is crucial
Breath control and diaphragm breathing for confidence
Techniques for Confident Speaking (09:41 - 20:34)
Throat chakra and its impact on voice
Importance of breathing and connecting with the diaphragm
Power of pausing while speaking
Three components of communication: words, tone, body language
Example of Teddy Roosevelt's impactful quote about the Grand Canyon
Body language and posture affect confidence and perception
️ Frameworks and Examples for Effective Communication (20:34 - 29:00)
PREP framework for structured communication
Importance of repetition and rephrasing for retention
Reflection technique in conversations
An example from TV show 'Nobody Wants This' about conversation flow
Connecting with Your Audience (29:00 - 36:55)
Princess Diana's approach to public speaking: 'Share your heart'
Importance of authentic connection over perfect delivery
Practice in low-stakes situations
Review of key points: practice, breathe, pause, communicate from the heart
Importance of words, tone, and body language in communication
Host Samantha Fackler is an Entrepreneur, Transformational Business Coach for Women, and Marketing Expert. Samantha has served hundreds of clients – from scrappy startups to industry giants like Apple, PayPal, and LinkedIn.
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