6. Voice of Authority: Speaking Confidently as a Leader

Ever caught yourself thinking, “Damn, how does she command a room like that?” That’s what this episode is about: how to speak confidently and unlock your vocal power no matter which room you find yourself in.

In this Side Note episode, host Samantha Fackler spills the tea on how to transform the way you speak in situations across life and business. The hot date you’re nervous about? The TEDx stage you (one day) will land on? There’s always a room where we may feel a bit nervous. In this episode, Sam shares tips to speak with authority and presence–like mastering breath control, body language, playing with your tone, and how the magic of a well-timed pause can completely change how you're heard. 

Get ready for:

  • 5 simple but significant tips to speak with authority and presence (hello, throat chakra energy)

  • The lowdown on how body language can make or break your message

  • The PREP framework: your secret weapon for mastering any conversation or pitch

  • How to channel your inner Princess Di and connect with literally anyone

Breathing for Confidence and Control

Feeling like your voice disappears when the room gets loud? You’re not alone. Samantha Fackler reveals how your throat chakra could be the key to unlocking your true voice. From learning to breathe deeply using your diaphragm to calming your nervous system, these techniques can help you regain confidence in your speech. She explains how breathing “low and slow” can shift your energy, open your throat, and bring out that deep, resonant voice that commands attention. Ready to speak with authority? It starts with mastering your breath and connecting to the power within.

Pause, Breathe, Speak: The Key to Powerful Communication

The power of the pause is your secret weapon in communication. Samantha breaks down why pausing not only keeps you grounded but also makes your words more intentional and impactful. It's in those moments of stillness that we reconnect with our breath and find clarity. She shares how public speakers throughout history, like Teddy Roosevelt, mastered the art of saying more with fewer words. His simple yet powerful quote about the Grand Canyon is a prime example of how choosing your words carefully can leave a lasting impression.

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Key Takeaways

️ Introduction to Confident Speaking (00:01 - 09:41)

  • Episode focus: How to speak confidently

  • Importance of words and communication in leadership

  • Samantha’s personal journey with social anxiety and finding her voice

  • Practice is key to becoming a confident speaker

  • Expression of energy while speaking is crucial

  • Breath control and diaphragm breathing for confidence

Techniques for Confident Speaking (09:41 - 20:34)

  • Throat chakra and its impact on voice

  • Importance of breathing and connecting with the diaphragm

  • Power of pausing while speaking

  • Three components of communication: words, tone, body language

  • Example of Teddy Roosevelt's impactful quote about the Grand Canyon

  • Body language and posture affect confidence and perception

️ Frameworks and Examples for Effective Communication (20:34 - 29:00)

  • PREP framework for structured communication

  • Importance of repetition and rephrasing for retention

  • Reflection technique in conversations

  • An example from TV show 'Nobody Wants This' about conversation flow

Connecting with Your Audience (29:00 - 36:55)

  • Princess Diana's approach to public speaking: 'Share your heart'

  • Importance of authentic connection over perfect delivery

  • Practice in low-stakes situations

  • Review of key points: practice, breathe, pause, communicate from the heart

  • Importance of words, tone, and body language in communication

Host Samantha Fackler is an Entrepreneur, Transformational Business Coach for Women, and Marketing Expert. Samantha has served hundreds of clients – from scrappy startups to industry giants like Apple, PayPal, and LinkedIn.

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