7. High Achiever in Progress: Kendall Berg on Writing, Pageants, and Juggling it All
In this raw and revealing episode, Kendall Berg joins Side Note to unpack the complex relationships behind “juggling it all”. As a successful career coach, pageant competitor, mother, and advocate for domestic violence survivors, Kendall courageously shares how her drive to excel across multiple domains emerged as a response to past trauma — and the journey of recognizing this pattern.
Through honest conversation with host Samantha Fackler, Kendall explores the shadow side of being a “high achiever,” challenging the glamorized narrative of “doing it all.” While preparing to compete for Mrs. Colorado and writing her first book, Kendall offers a refreshing perspective on redefining success on her own terms.
This episode speaks to every woman who's wondered if her relentless drive might be masking deeper truths, while offering hope for those ready to write a new story.
Kendall’s Productivity Blueprint: Day Blocking
Balancing a jam-packed life isn’t just about squeezing in tasks—it’s about maximizing the flow of every single day. Kendall’s productivity secret? Day blocking, her unique approach to organizing tasks into designated days, giving her full focus on each priority without overload. Mondays are for content, midweek is dedicated to clients and corporate demands, and weekends are sacred family time, allowing a full mental recharge. This structured rhythm is what keeps her thriving across her roles, from CEO to pageant queen, with the energy to spare. If you’re juggling big goals and personal time, Kendall’s strategy may just inspire your own productivity overhaul.
Book Editing: Balancing Vision and Authentic Voice
Navigating edits as an author can feel like a test of resilience, especially when your words—your voice—are transformed by someone else’s pen. Kendall reveals the emotional journey of seeing her carefully crafted pages marked up with red and the struggle to stay true to her voice amidst necessary changes. Trusting her editor’s expertise while grappling with ego, Kendall dives deep into the balance between creative control and professional growth. If you’re curious about maintaining authenticity while achieving perfection, this conversation sheds light on finding your voice, even when it’s under the spotlight.
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Key Takeaways
️ Introduction Kendall Berg (00:00 - 09:57)
Kendall Berg introduced as a career coach, pageant queen, writer, and multi-passionate individual
Kendall updates on her current activities: career coaching, social media influencing, writing a book, competing for Misses Colorado, raising awareness for domestic violence survivors, building a house
Discusses balancing multiple roles with support from her husband
Mentions high stress threshold and thriving in chaotic environments
Marriage and Communication (09:58 - 18:42)
Kendall shares insights on marriage and how it differs from dating
Emphasizes the importance of communication in marriage
Discusses expectations in marriage and the need for open dialogue
Shares personal examples of learning to communicate needs effectively
Highlights the importance of regular date nights with spouse to maintain connection
Book Writing and Editing Process (18:42 - 27:47)
Kendall discusses her experience writing a book and working with a publisher
Describes the emotional challenges of receiving edits on her manuscript
Shares insights on balancing editor suggestions with maintaining her unique voice
Emphasizes the importance of trust in the editing process
Career and Personal Development (27:47 - 37:22)
Discusses hypothetical scenario of having a clean slate in life
Kendall shares her desire to pursue various hobbies and learn new skills
Mentions interest in learning cello, gardening, ice skating, and sign language
Emphasizes the importance of continuous learning and personal growth
AI for Personal Growth (37:22 - 46:34)
Kendall shares her recent exploration of ChatGPT for personal use
Discusses using AI for makeup tips, hairstyling advice, and communication strategies
Mentions the potential of AI for decision-making and self-reflection
Discusses a recent viral video about future self-visualization
Host Samantha Fackler is an Entrepreneur, Transformational Business Coach for Women, and Marketing Expert. Samantha has served hundreds of clients – from scrappy startups to industry giants like Apple, PayPal, and LinkedIn.
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